Imperfections lead to Perfection

Sun, 05/31/2009 - 17:18 —vijay kumar

Imagine a world full of perfect people. Men who look like Greek gods are roaming on the streets, with nobody giving them a second glance. Intellect has risen to a level that “genius” has no recognition. Perfection is not exciting in itself. So, how will a world seem to be without imperfections? Life will lose its beauty and charm. And, the charm may be in wandering in search of another identity.

Imperfections are essential to the nature of life. They keep it interesting by making arrangements for contrasts. Imperfect situations sow the seeds for the purpose of a relationship. These conditions make people realize that they feel more perfect when they are with someone. There are many people who are looking for companionship so that they get a source of inspiration to accomplish what they are trying to. Besides, admitting the fact that you are imperfect can serve as a favorable indication. People around you get to know that there is a receptive turn to your approach. They tend to volunteer for help. Positive intentions directed towards each other represent a symbiotic relationship, whereby each partner moves towards betterment.

Opposed to the popular idea, imperfection makes us more ambitious. This is because imperfections can drive you to strive towards perfection. Somewhere inside us, there is a desire to become complete – to get rid of that emptiness that exists deep inside. Often, this lacuna is a person missing from our life. Looking for companionship can fill such a gap.

Instances like occurrence of an unfortunate event can trigger a phase of depression in someone’s life. While staying aloof can worsen the impact of that incident, looking for companionship can heal such wounds. There may be some intense feelings, which, if not expressed, can prove to be harmful. Looking for companionship is one way to get things back on track. Togetherness spells harmony and happiness. When we start doing things with people who want to do the same things, the whole atmosphere gets energized and life gets going. 

Usually, the state of perfection is something that is identical to the rosy picture that comes to our mind after we find the desired companion. The existence of imperfections gives us the opportunity to enjoy the wonderful experience of a relationship. This very fact highlights the value of the freshness we bring into our lives while dealing with imperfections.